Men are so funny. You never hear them talk about Love (wanting it or giving it) until you bring up money. I was just telling some sistahs that even Kevin Samuels does all this relationship talk, but never once mentions Love. They avoid the subject of Love until you ask them to pay bills or give you money. Then it’s; “What about love?”, “Love doesn’t cost a thing!”, “Why should I pay to get some p*ssy?”. They want every woman to be a cheap hoe, because they saw their Mamas give their vaginas and womb away and not get anything from it. Not marriage. Not a home. Not child support. Especially mothers from the 80s and 90s. They think everything a woman gives to a man doesn’t deserve any form of reciprocation! Hell, even some of these treacherous mothers told their sons not to “trick” on women, and to “watch out” for “these hoes”, yet say NOTHING when their sons DOG the hell out of women. In fact, some of these mothers pride themselves off their sons being “ladies men” when they get older. No wonder women are feeling so dirty, cheap, and used!
Alot of women have high sex drives and love the dick as much as men love the pussy. I truly think that though these women say they are capable of detaching emotions from sex, I see more and more women jaded and bitter for having hoe phases that didn’t produce loving relationships. Unfortunately, many women have father wounds and end up looking for love in all the wrong places. The women before us thought they could cook their way into a man’s heart, my generation and below believe we can sex our way to a man’s heart. If all women are honest, we ultimately want a man to claim us. We want more than his dick. We want his mind, heart, and soul, but all he is willing to give us is dick. Then we are left with a wet ass and tear stained cheeks after giving the pussy up for nothing in return. Some walk away from men with children, they barely help raising. How would your circumstances be different, if you asked for money upfront?
What do I say? BRING UP MONEY EVERYTIME HE WANTS TO LAY DOWN WITH YOU! Because honestly, these men ain’t trying to love you or give you their heart. In fact, most are deadly afraid of love! They rather be heartbreakers, than hearrbroken. They only want you to think about Love when it’s time for them to pay up! We ain’t falling for their games no more, Sistahs! Pay Up, Before We Lay Up! If he’s too cheap, then he ain’t for you. DON’T DARE SIGN UP FOR THAT STRUGGLE LOVE MESS EITHER! And the men who provide for women, WON’T MIND PAYING. It ain’t tricking if he got it! He already knows that the woman has the p*ssy, so she’s already coming to the table with what he wants. Everything else she comes with is a bonus! Remember: A Man that values women will not mind paying for her time, energy, and p*ssy…… If Love comes from this, that’s cool too! But invest in me, first! No Love Lost. Less bitterness, and resentment if the relationship ends.
Look, I’m not trying to stop women from doing what they want, but I do believe that men don’t give women what we want, because there are so many women that give it away for nothing. And contrary to what you may believe, men need to be trained, coached, and disciplined in ways to want to be good or even decent. If they aren’t, they behave purely in their animalistic nature. (“Do the dog catcher!”) So if you are giving your good pussy away for nothing in return, then it indeed sets you and other women up for failure. Then you have women that sleep with EVERY MAN that she encounters for NOTHING. Men will just stay where they can get the easiest access and will dog women who want more for women who want less. At the end of the day, giving pussy away for free helps no woman, so be a sistah and charge it to the game: Charge these men, or close your legs!
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